7 Things Men Do If They Are Seriously Into You

1. Ask about “that thing”

If you had a job interview you were
nervous about, or a doctor’s
appointment, a meeting about a
possible promotion, or just something
you had once mentioned was coming
up and he makes a point of calling you
up after to ask how it went, he is
serious about you. Men who aren’t
serious about a woman make a point
of not asking for too many details
about her life.

2. Clarify missed calls

Did he take hours to call back? Did he
completely forget to text back? If
you’re just someone he is having
temporary fun with, he isn’t
concerned about you getting pissed
about those things. But if he makes a
point of saying, “Hey, sorry for taking
so long, I was hung up in etc, etc” or
“Oh my god I just realized you sent
me a text when I was at work and I
completely forgot to answer! I’m so
sorry!” then you’re not someone he is
willing to let go of easily. (Men know
how much delayed call or text-backs
upset us).

3. Offer to help

When you mention that you’re
moving, or putting together some
furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help?
Does he often look for ways he can be
of service to you? Men don’t do that
just for a woman they are trying to
sleep with or casually date for a short
period of time. They save that type of
effort for ones they are serious about.

4. Plan ahead

If you’re just a fling to him, you are
(unfortunately) kind of replaceable.
But, if he is serious about you, no one
else’s presence will do. You’ll know
that is the case if he asks you a
significant amount of time ahead of
time to reserve a day so that you can
be his date to something. That means
he wants to guarantee he gets your
time.

5. Care about your career

If he really cares about you, he wants
all the other things in your life that
make you happy to go as well as
possible! If a man has clearly put time
into thinking about your career, and
coming up with suggestions for how
you could advance it or be happier in
it, he plans on being around for a
while. He is making sure things in your
future will be good. Because he plans
on being with you then and he wants
to be with a woman who is happy.

6. Brags about you

If he isn’t serious about you, he may
bring you to a party or a friend’s get
together, but he’ll most likely leave
you to fend for yourself. If he is serious
about you, he is proud of you, and he
will make a point of being near you to
introduce you to people and tell them
all about you and your
accomplishments.

7. Just wants to cuddle

No man who is trying to keep things
casual is going to make the terrible
mistake of sending a, “Can’t you just
be next to me so we can cuddle?”
text. They know that sends a serious
signal. If a guy sends this type of text,
he likes you.